Thursday, 4 September 2008,
There was a man who felt that he is very unhappy about his life. He felt that he was on the verge of depression, so he went to consult a psychologist.
He told the doctor that he was afraid of going home after work. This is beacuse the moment he reaches home, he feel very panicky as he doesn't know what he truly wants. He doesn't know what is the right choice for him. In the night, he will become even more panicky and starts to feel afraid, causing him many sleepless nights. However when he returns to work the next day, all these fears will vanish. He was afraid that this may cause depression.
The psychologist suggested that he should go to the local theatre, where a famous comedian performs. His performance never fails to bring laughter to the audience. Maybe the man should watch a few shows of his before coming back again.
The man has his head lowered throughout the psychologist's suggestion. He remained silent for a period of time after the psychologist finished his words. After a very long time, the man lifted his head, reavealing him crying. He told the psychologist sadly that he is that famous comedian... ...
Many a times, when we get used to the role we play in the community around us, we may think that this is actually what we wanted, our true dreams. However, many of us will neglect what we truly feel deep in the heart. Our true needs are hidden by these roles that we play. When we leave our role one day, we will find that we are actually lost.
--Taken from《于丹〈论语〉心得》
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